Solo, Polyamorous, and Seeking Healthy Community
One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again. Abraham Maslow We all have a need for consistency and...
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“How do you explain to people that it is not true that you have a fiercely guarded heart? That it just feels like you have not had the space that felt safe enough to fully share it? To really let...
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“Honor your self, Worship your Self, Meditate on your Self, God dwells within you as you.” ~ Swami Muktananada Muktananda was a controversial figure, who had a profound affect on many lives, my own...
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Today, this blog is six years old. Today, I share some recent reflections on this radical journey. ~~~ I said yes to marrying my boyfriend because I was afraid that my life was going nowhere and I...
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Love is not about losing freedom; it’s about sharing freedom with a partner who’s as talented a liberationist as you~ Rob Brezsny’s Free Will Astrology This post has been hard for me to write. Indeed,...
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